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A normal-looking woman, with far more to value than the male gaze. I have realised that that gaze still matters to me. And it makes me feel deeply foolish and petty and silly. This is the most insidious thing about the impact of gender inequality and the leering social behemoth that we call the patriarchy. It leaches into the corners of our lives and devalues us.
On a beautiful day, when you are feeling happy and fulfilled and proud of your friend, it guts you with three words carelessly dispensed by a man in chinos. His view of me became far more important than what I thought of myself. On coming home, I scrutinised myself in the mirror. I took selfies with my daughters and edited myself out of them. I found myself irrationally jealous of their beautiful baby skin and devastated that one day they might feel the same way as I do.
Listen to Mamamia Out Loud, where we cover what women are talking about this week. I downloaded FaceTune and made my chin smaller and my lips heavier. I deleted FaceTune. I cried in the shower. I ruminated about it with friends. And I would bet my second kidney that he never thought of me again. An open letter to that man: I am sorry for you, but not as sorry as I am for the women you know.
You are part of a sprawling problem. You are an actor on the spectrum of inequality that devalues women in the workplace and subjugates them in the street. You are making the world a place where I am scared for my little girls.
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